Sex and Relationship Counselling for couples and one-to-one

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Tom Corbishley

Sex Therapy Watford is part of Talk-Works Psychotherapy

My name is Tom Corbishley MCCP, and I am a fully accredited member of UKCP (Reg. No. 2011164553) and a student member of COSRT (Membership No. 3018). COSRT is the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists.

My practice is based online and in Croxley Green, Hertfordshire.

I am trained in Clinical Sexology (Sex and Relationship Therapy), Contemporary Psychotherapy, and Pesso Boyden System Psychotherapy.

Why do people come for therapy?

How can I help?

About me

I am trained in Sex and Relationship Therapy for individuals and couples. That means I offer counselling for relationship problems and difficulties with sexual functioning. I work using Contemporary Psychotherapy, which is a pluralistic* approach, and I am also trained in Pesso Boyden System Psychomotor, which is a body based psychotherapy. *Pluralistic just means that I call upon everything I have learned to make the therapy fit your needs, rather than try to fit you to my preferred style of therapy.

My guiding principles

My belief is that we all have the capacity (and indeed birthright) to be able to be happy. Happy doesn’t mean laughing all the time, it means comfortable in our own skin. Of course this doesn’t necessarily mean that everything in our lives runs smoothly, rather that we have all our inner resources recruited to serenely cope with whatever comes our way.

How I can help

Most of us have a pretty good idea when things are not right. We feel pain, frustration, despair and alienation, and rather like an itch we just can’t scratch, the healthy solutions seem out of reach. I see my job as a psychotherapist to create a safe space for you to explore what’s going on, and then working together we will find the answers that are right for you. My objective is to help you turn your pain into pleasure, your frustration into satisfaction, your despair into meaning and your alienation into connectedness.

My specialist areas

My particular area of interest is how the experiences of our formative years can shape our way of perceiving, and being, in the world today. Often experiences that did not validate our true nature show up later as anxiety, depression, feelings of shame and self destructive tendencies. This can affect our relationships and sexual functioning.

My rooms in Croxley Green

I work with individuals and couples from a comfortable clinic room in Croxley Green, Hertfordshire where there is free parking and nearby access to the London Underground. The rooms are on a well lit shopping street with a coffee shop nearby. In response to the COVID pandemic I am mostly working online at present, but the clinic has been refurbished to meet COVID recommended best practice precautions, so I can see a small number of clients face to face. This involves careful hygiene procedures and a written risk assessment.

Sex Therapy Watford is located in the popular Backs 2 Basics Health Centre in Croxley Green

127 New Road, Croxley Green, Hertfordshire WD3 3EN

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Sex Therapy Watford has a quiet and private consulting room newly refurbished to meet COVID recommended best practice precautions

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Sex Therapy Watford has a comfortable waiting room with a clean washroom (not currently used because of best practice COVID recommendations)

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